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美国妈妈教5岁女儿:〝13件不可做的事〞

纽约时间: 2017-10-13 05:43 AM 
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在孩子成长的过程中,家长扮演至关重要的角色,以培养孩子们正向、正确的价值观。(pixabay)
【新唐人北京时间2017年10月13日讯】在孩子成长的过程中,家长扮演至关重要的角色,以培养孩子们正向、正确的价值观。美国有一位妈妈给自己5岁的女儿写了13项〝不可以做〞清单,内容充满智慧与爱。获得众多网友的赞许,称〝地表最棒家长〞! 一起来看看这份清单吧:
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给我亲爱的女儿

1.当别人撞到你时,你不需要道歉。

2.不要说〝对不起,我是一个麻烦〞,你不是一个麻烦。你是一个有自己想法和感受,以及值得被他人尊重的人。

3.当你不想和一个男生出去时,你不需要找理由拒绝。只要简单地回:〝不,谢谢〞,因为你不欠任何人解释。

4.在别人面前吃东西时,不需要想太多。如果你饿,就吃吧。吃你想吃的任何食物。如果想吃披萨,你就点披萨,不要因为有其他人在,而改点一份沙拉。

5.不需要为了取悦别人一直留长发。

6.如果你不想穿一件衣服,你可以不穿。

7.不要因为没有朋友而足不出户。你可以自己出去,为自己创造属于你个人的经历。

8.不要压抑自己的泪水。哭泣代表着你有情绪需要释放,这不是脆弱,而是人的本性。

9.不要因为别人的要求而强颜欢笑。

10.不要害怕因为自己出了笑话而大笑。

11.不要为了礼貌什么事都说〝好〞。你可以说〝不〞,因为这是你自己的人生。

12.不要隐藏自己的想法,大声勇敢地说出来,你的声音应该被听见。

13.不要因为〝做自己〞而向他人道歉。成为一个勇敢、无畏、美丽的人,理直气壮地做自己。

To my daughter, . Don't apologize when someone else bumps into you. . Don't say "sorry to be such a pain." You're not a pain. You're a person with thoughts and feelings who deserves respect. . Don't make up reasons as to why you can't go out with a guy you don't wanna go out with. You don't owe anyone an explanation. A simple "no thanks" should be acceptable. . Don't overthink what you eat in front of people. If you're hungry, eat, and eat what you want. If you want pizza, don't get a salad just because other people are around. Order the damn pizza. . Don't keep your hair long to make someone else happy. . Don't wear a dress if you don't want to. . Don't stay home because you don't have anyone to go out with. Take yourself out. Have experiences by yourself and for yourself. . Don't hold back your tears. Crying means you're feeling something that needs to get out. It's not a weakness. It's being human. . Don't smile because someone told you to. . Don't be afraid to laugh at your own jokes. . Don't say "yes" to be polite. Say "no" because it's your life. . Don't hide your opinions. Speak up and speak loudly. You should be heard. . Don't apologize for being who you are. Be brave and bold and beautiful. Be unapologetically you. . #parentlife #parenting #momlife #stronggirl #strongwoman #daughtergoals #daughters #momanddaughtergoals #momanddaughter #strongwoman #strongwomen #motherhood #motherhoodlife #motherhooduncut @todaysparent @todayparents

Toni Hammer(@isitbedtimeyetblog)分享的贴文 于 张贴



从这张清单可以发现,这位母亲似乎在命令女儿,实际上却是在培养女儿的自信心以及独立思考的能力。因此在网路上引起很大回响,网友们说,〝我们从小都在学着如何舍弃自己的感受、适应社会,真希望有人教我这些。〞〝可以说是最懂得教育小孩的家长典范!〞

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